Dead mother, aunt and uncle visited my son at college with my father who is still alive. They were eating in the dining hall of the college. My son called me to come there saying 'they are trying to take me'. His mother and I went to the dining hall and everyone was at a table. I picked up a plate and bashed it over my aunt's head.
Dreams involving deceased loved ones often evoke strong emotions and can symbolize various aspects of your feelings and relationships. Here are some interpretations of the elements in your dream:
Visitation from Deceased Relatives: The presence of your dead mother, aunt, and uncle could represent unresolved feelings, memories, or a desire for guidance. They may symbolize aspects of your family dynamics, traditions, or influence from your childhood.
Your Son's College: College often represents growth, independence, and new beginnings. Your son being in this setting signifies his transition into adulthood and possibly your feelings around that change, including anxiety about his safety or well-being.
“They are trying to take me”: Your son’s statement indicates a feeling of being threatened or unsafe. This could represent your fears about him being influenced by peers, straying from family values, or facing challenges in a new environment. It may also reflect a subconscious worry about losing your connection with him as he grows more independent.
The Dining Hall Scene: Eating together can symbolize family unity or the sharing of experiences. However, since it involves dead relatives, this can hint at a clash between old family influences and the new environment your son is in.
Bashing the Plate Over Your Aunt's Head: This act of aggression towards your aunt may indicate frustration, anger, or the desire to assert control over a situation that feels threatening. It might reflect conflicts with family expectations versus your own desires or protective instincts toward your son.
Overall, this dream could reflect anxiety about your son's future, conflicts between old family dynamics and new independence, and a struggle with your own protective instincts. It may be beneficial to explore these emotions further and consider how they may connect to your waking life and relationships.